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December 29th, 2003
01:25 am


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Insight by Night

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Date:December 29th, 2003 06:20 am (UTC)
are we talking about being human or about פול's here?

pulling a פול is indeed a game. saying "no, go ahead and eat without me, cause i have atleast 10 more minutes of work and i don't want you to starve" meaning "wait for me, i am starving and i don;t want to eat alone" is playing a game. wanting to call the woman you dated last night, which is by far the most wonderful one you have met in years, but thinking "nahh.. i don't want her to think i am too interested" is a game.

contemplating on what to do, discussing a probelm, getting your thoughts out there with someone to help sort things out, discovering in the middle of a fight you were wrong and changing course - all this is "being human" (so to speak)

these are two different things, and i have no interest in the first one. if you want me to wait - tell me, if you love me, tell me, if you think i am an asshole and want me to change something - tell me. if you don't want to say it, but rather leave me guessing with innuendoes i am not playing this game, i wasted too many years on this. it is a matter of respect IMO, both for myself and others.

did i make my point any clearer? it is hard to think straight while working.
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Date:December 30th, 2003 05:09 am (UTC)
Oh, I totally agree with that. I just understood Ijon's entry a little differently.
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